I’ve really got something amazing this time. A simple formula – a script – that will CURE any resistance you have to “Networking” AND leave peopled totally “wowed” by you and what you do!
Yes, with this simple formula, I give it all to you in this video, you will create instant credibility, captivate your perfect clients’ attention and be the coolest person in the room. (and that means everyone will remember you and be talking about you) Check it out…and tell me what you think of the formula!
Why do you need this? Well the reality is that even very smart accomplished people struggle with answering that question, “What do you do?” in a way that is not only succinct and clear and focused…but is memorable and moves people to action in hiring you!
As a matter of fact, many people tell me they have a panic attack at the idea of networking or simply talking to people about what they do, this easy formula can dramatically transform how you approach networking forever.
I know for me… I would fumble and ramble and literally just list the things that I did!
No wonder I didn’t want to network and why you probably don’t either!
However, we both know that networking is absolutely necessary to grow our businesses. That’s why it’s so important to comfortably and confidently introduce yourself and your practice in a networking environment.
And by the way…the most important thing is…Your Perfect Client Should Hear Themselves in Your Message!
When you discover that there’s a system, a basic formula for describing what you do to other people, the act of networking will become second nature.
If you build this formula correctly, it will not only allow you to speak with ease, but also when speaking to your perfect customer, they will hear their own struggles in your words as well the benefits of working with you. It’s a form of subliminal messaging. You want your description to be concise enough to be easily heard and processed, but detailed enough to be relate-able.
When using this formula, your response to, “What do you do?” will lead people to say, “Wow, that’s really interesting. Can I hear more?”
Formula Part I: Show vs. Tell
The formula is a sequence of words in which you will fill in the blanks according to your expertise. Begin by saying, “I show.” This is important because you want to avoid saying, “I help” as the word show actually sets you up to show all the benefits of what you do. It enhances the visualization process and allows listeners to visualize what you say next, as opposed to just thinking about it. Vision creates a far more powerful reality than thought alone.
So, “I show” and then fill in the blank. What types of people do you help?
Another great tip: use positive attributes for those people.
For example, I would say, “I show amazing, talented, success-minded people…” as opposed to saying, “sad, depressed people with low self-esteem.” The first example will peak interest and relativity when people think, “Yeah, that’s me,” or “That’s who I want to be,” instead of deterring them from working with you using the second, depressing example. See the difference?
Formula Part II: The Struggle
Next, you’ll want to insert: “…struggling with (insert pain-points).”
What is your perfect customer struggling with? Is it not making enough money? Is it that they have pain in their body? Are they struggling to lose weight or regain their health?
Whatever it is you do as a coach, fill in the most pervasive pain-points that your customer has.
For example: “I show amazing, talented, success-minded people struggling with their money…” This is where you can focus on the negative; the struggle is what’s holding them back from where they want to be.
This is also a great way to market-test those pain-points because as you’re saying them, you can assess how people resonate with them and either take note of how good they are or change them based on people’s reactions.
Formula Part III: The ‘How to’
The final part of this formula is to insert the how to. This is a little misleading because you’re not actually going to give any how to.
What you’ll put here instead is the desired outcome or benefit that someone will experience after working with you. What will they be able to become? What will they now have?
Going back to the example: “I show amazing, talented, success-minded people struggling with their money how to be empowered money managers.”
Give them the experiential benefits so that they will visualize themselves in a better, more desirable place after having taken on your services.
Now…Stand Out at Networking Events
This is merely a formula that will depend entirely upon your expertise and coaching approach.
Play with it and change it however often you feel the need until it most suits you and your clientele.
Practice your formula and then go out there and network. Even if it’s not perfected yet, even if you still need to refine it, you will quickly see how much more effective you will be at networking using this method.
Let’s be honest, at any networking event, 99% of the other people there are going to stammer and struggle and ramble about what they do, just like you and I both did before learning this formula.
But not you, my friend, YOU will stand out like someone who is clear, concise, and focused; a rock star in any crowd!
And along with having the fun of being the coolest person in the room…that WILL lead to clients!
But please, PLEASE do leave a comment and tell me what you think and extra please DO share your wow statement below!